I used to find one of the hardest things to deal with “post” divorce, was how alone I felt. There was constant doubt of “what could I have done different”, etc. that took me a long time to realize the answer was NOTHING! The shortcoming was not mine, it was his.
However, you still wonder if anyone else ever feels that same “lost” and “alone” feeling and how they deal with it? Many keep it hidden, many allow it to drive them crazy, some feel comfortable getting it out there in the open and talking about it with family, friends, clergy, counselors and therapists. We all deal differently but the key to remember is you are not alone and there are so many others out there going through this life altering experience.
When I see interviews like this, it reminds me that even those we perceive as beautiful and perfect still have broken hearts and loneliness. Please enjoy this snippet of an interview I came across with Jane Seymour after her divorce. They seem to have met in common ground and have a healthy relationship. Not all of us are that fortunate.
This is certainly one of the times during the year that it’s brought so forward in our attention of being “alone”. Cling to those who make you smile and laugh and bring you joy during the Holidaze!! Wishing you great peace and prosperity in 2015!!
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